This weekend Scott, the boys, and I traveled 3 1/2 hours to attend the blessing of my newest nephew Jace. We stayed overnight and called my sister at 6 that evening to say we were coming by to visit. She laughed, "You're coming right now?". It was the laugh that said... how funny/ironic that "right" now you are coming. So I asked if it was a bad time... she said "No, come on over". So we did. And this is were the Super Wife/Mom story begins. Jared (Bishop) has been gone since 4:30 am on a hike with the boy scouts. When we arrive Marlo has just put the 3 Lasagnas she has made in the fridge for tomorrows lunch with family. She has homemade rolls in bags and 2 large sheet pans of carrot cake. No small feat for a nursing mom with 5 children and husband who is a Bishop with a full time job and a full time responsibility to his ward members. We visit for a couple of hours, I hold Jace and bribe the kids to take their showers by giving them candy corn. Kyler hurried so fast he still had shampoo in his hair and he was wet under his pajamas having skipped using a towel.
There are two things I wished I would of done for Marlo...
1. Brought dinner for her and the kids
2. Washed her dishes from making the Lasagna
On Sunday we go to the Church for the blessing. I observe. Easton sits with me, he is my pal during the meeting. Marlo, Brianne, Jace, Kyler, and Kaden sit in the row behind and Bishop is sitting up in front of the congregation near the podium. Jace is given a sweet blessing by his father. I am listening to the blessing all the while my two boys are teasing one another. Seems they can hardly handle themselves once Scott had got up to participate in the blessing. The exposed space between them just beckoned for them to bug one another. This is the chaos I live in-- and they can't even contain themselves at church, to even give the appearance of perfect children! We make it through the passing of the sacrament. Kaden, the baby of the family until 4 weeks ago, is upset and Marlo takes him out of the meeting. Bishop steps down and exits the chapel, he comes back with Kaden. Kaden happily sits with Dad for the rest of the meeting. I pass out my Friend Magazines and other books I have to the boys. Easton is surprised to see that I have the same magazines that he has at home. Marlo returns after feeding Jace. I hold Jace for about 5-10 min... until he is on the verge of full fledged crying. Marlo soothes him. I listen to the testimonies and notice that a lot of youth, especially the young men, are getting up to bear testimony of the gospel and how it helps them in their lives. I think... is this a direct correlation of having a Bishop who takes time and makes it a priority to personally attend to the youth of his ward? I wonder. It is a good meeting, I observe, and I am glad I am there with my sister and her family. I see how they need the ward and the ward needs them.
After the meeting we go to their home. We wait for Jared so we can have pictures of this day. We wait a while, a Bishop is busy. He comes, we take pictures. I like this picture. Kaden is asleep on his Dad's shoulder, we can barely see the baby, Easton has been running around with Chance and his shirt is untucked-- it is a picture of a my sister and her husband who give of their time unselfishly. This is them, holding it together with the strength and blessings of a loving Heavenly Father. It is a moment in their lives, a real moment.

Marlo and Jace

My Super Star Sister!
Wife and Mother extraordinaire.

This would not be complete if I did not also mention that they announced in Sacrament Meeting the Bishop's Youth Fireside would be at 7:00 that evening at the Bishop's home. Marlo and Jared exchange a smile, the kind were you let your wife know that you are having youth over to the house at 7pm and they need refreshments and then the wife smiles back because she can handle it! She made extra carrot cake.