Ruth means "compassion, pity". Ruth was young Moabite widow who said to her Hebrew mother-in-law Naomi, "Where you go, there I shall go also; your people will be my people, your God, my God."
My Dad, he has been told that it was good thing he married my mother or he would of been Ruthless! Without compassion or pity...
My Mom's Birthday was May 6... yep, just a day after my Dad's.
However, my mom is a year younger.
Ruth is actually her middle name, her first name is the same as her Mothers, Charlotte. Her full name minus surnames is Charlotte Ruth. On my birth certificate she signed it Charlotte, if I did not recognize the handwriting I would say it was forged as I have never seen my Mom sign her name that way.
Back when I was pregnant with Jordan, we did have a girls name that was considered... just been so long I had forgotten until recently. The name was Natasha Ruth. That name would mean Child of Christmas with compassion and pity... it is a good name. When Chance came along I was looking for a girls name with a K, but still the middle name of the Ruth.
My mom married after she had her college education and was a school teacher. She was teaching school in my Dad's hometown and that is where they meet. How else would my Dad meet such a fabulous woman as my Mom. My Mom was born in Niagara Falls, New York and ended up in Los Angeles by the time she was 12. And folks... that is why I was born in California. My parents married and settled down in the LA area. Heaven forbid they raise their children in a small Utah town out on the edge of the earth... wait, they did do that! They went back to Dad's hometown to start the first and only Dairy the town has had. That was after they moved to Provo and Dad went to BYU for his Dairyman education.
And they raised 8 of us...yep, my mom has given birth to 8 kids.
Thrifty... that is a word that would describe my Mom. She is a bargain shopper. You would have to be to raise 8 kids... four of which are hungry boys. We did not have processed food. Most everything we made from scratch. A snack after school would be a slice of my Dad's homemade bread and peanut butter and honey... those two were pre-mixed together, I guess to save on waste and ease of use. It was Honey Peanut Butter. Boxed cereal... only on Sundays and that would be 1 box of cornflakes divided 10 ways. My mom went to the store often, but she only bought what was on sale... by the case. We did have cake mixes that she bought that way. Garden and fruit trees. Bees and beehives. Chickens for meat and eggs. These were things my mom did to stretch the food dollar.
Education. So my Mom ended up on a farm... and she was not a country girl. Camping, horse riding, guns, driving tractors... all not her thing. My mom is a city gal, although she did adapt just fine. Probably because she does not require beauty shops and malls to survive. No, my Mom seeks knowledge to survive. My mom continued her education... completing different courses for specialized teacher positions. Then when I was 14 she went back to BYU for her Masters. She attended the summers of 84, 85, 86-- and Erica, the youngest, was born in 85. I would say that was quite a feat. But the joy for us kids is we got to visit and take turns living in Provo for the summer. I think we all can agree those were some of the most luxurious, wonderful times for us. We had family housing in what was student housing during the other semesters. We had 3 bedrooms, a bathroom, and kitchen. The living area was a common area. We discovered many friends our age whose families were doing the same thing. After I turned 16 I went on my first date... something I know would not of happened in my hometown. Living away from home and being in such a fun atmosphere was a very good growth experience and confidence builder. We had dances, ate at the little cafeteria on campus (can't remember the name), spent 4th of July in Provo, hours on the basketball court, swimming almost daily and city life. Oh, it was grand all right.
Great Memories.
This is my Mama and me... I believe on my blessing day.

A Jill of many Trades... my mom is an excellent cook, painter, tiler, gardener, teacher and seamstress. She made my prom dress and my wedding dress. I have a letter from her when I was at college asking when I would be coming home to try on the sample cloth dress to see if it fits so that she could get started on the real one. She said I needed to give her a month. At least a month, as she was also making the veil, bouquet, centerpieces, and wedding cake. The only thing that did not work out was the wedding pictures she took. And this was all while she was having undiagnosed pain, oh and let's not forget she is a full time school teacher.
Below is my beautiful dress, it also became my sister Marlo's wedding dress... as I shared. Sorry picture is not good because it is a copy of a copy... and that copy was taken with my camera... but you still can get a pretty good jest of the dress.
My College Graduation, June 9, 1989 pictured with my parents. Coming up on 20 years and when I left CEU, a 2 year college, plans were to someday finish up with a bachelors. I am strongly feeling that the time has come. I think I am narrowing down what I want to be when I grow-up.
From Grandpa's Scrapbook... a little history and pictures of my Mom in her handwriting. I find her memory of her senior picture interesting.

Another memory I have of my Mom. Back when they owned the Dairy and we were using plastic bottles it would require a trip to Albuquerque or Phoenix to pick them up. It was a feat because it required the biggest trailer my Dad had to haul them. My Mom would drive down there with that big pick-up and trailer and most of that trip was in the middle of nowhere. Could you imagine doing that? A feat, but one you did because it had to be done. There was no room for fears when you are raising a mess of kids and trying to keep a dairy afloat. I am sure she could relate a story or two about those trips.
Happy Birthday Mother. Hope your cruise was relaxing and you got to see some beautiful scenery. I hear that it is a great cruise for that. I love you... thanks for the many, many things you have done for me.
I love you. Your Daughter, Karalene